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Welcome to the Mindful Faith Living blog, where faith meets mental wellness. Explore articles that break the stigma around mental health in Christian communities and provide practical, faith-based insights for healing and growth.


The Next Right Thing: Nourishment When Hope Feels Far Away
There may be seasons in life when you keep moving forward, yet inside you feel lost or exhausted. You may still be functioning, caring for others, and doing what needs to be done, but emotionally things feel heavy, uncertain, or drained. In moments like these, hope doesn’t always feel accessible. It can feel distant, quiet, or even gone altogether. I am a mom and bonus mom to six boys. Like many families, we enjoy all sorts of movies, and for a time Frozen and Frozen 2 wer
Gail Henry-Ruhl
Jan 93 min read


Empathy Isn’t Enough: The Quiet Difference Between Feeling With Someone and Caring for Them
Empathy is everywhere right now. It’s in leadership seminars, therapy-speak on social media, church small groups, parenting podcasts, and corporate mission statements. We are told to “lead with empathy,” “practice radical empathy,” and “be more empathetic” as if empathy itself is the moral high ground. And yet—despite all this empathy—we are not experiencing less loneliness, less burnout, or less relational fracture. Which raises an uncomfortable question: What if empathy, as

Jason Henry-Ruhl
Jan 54 min read


The New Year Doesn’t Fix Everything — and That’s Okay
January has a way of showing up with expectations. Fresh starts. Clean slates. Big goals. Better habits. A subtle pressure that says, “This is your moment to get it right.” But here’s the truth we don’t talk about enough: The calendar flipping doesn’t magically make life lighter. You don’t wake up on January 1st healed. Grief doesn’t expire. Burnout doesn’t reset overnight. Anxiety doesn’t check the date and decide to leave. And that doesn’t mean you’re failing the new year.

Jason Henry-Ruhl
Jan 12 min read


Stranger Things and the Weight We Carry: Healing, Shame, and the Courage to Come Home
🚨 SPOILER WARNING 🚨 This article contains MAJOR spoilers for Stranger Things Season 5, Episode 5 (“Chapter Five: Shock Jock”) . If you have not watched this episode yet and want to experience it unspoiled, pause here, go watch it , and come back. This reflection dives deeply into specific scenes, dialogue, and emotional moments from the episode. There are episodes of television that entertain you. And then there are episodes that quietly tell the truth about you. Stranger

Jason Henry-Ruhl
Dec 31, 20255 min read


No Shame in Health Challenges
Recently, while helping patients find their way to a diabetes class, I had a moment that stayed with me. One patient shared their concern right away: “I’m not sure what this class will be like. Are they going to shame us?” Hearing that made my heart sink, but it also revealed something important. Many people approach health-related spaces already carrying fear, guilt, and shame—especially when it comes to mental health, nutrition, and chronic illness. The stigma surrounding t
Gail Henry-Ruhl
Dec 30, 20252 min read


Before You Set Goals for the New Year, Pause Here
A 5-Step Framework for Setting Mindfulness Goals in 2026 The end of the year carries a quiet weight. Christmas has passed. The decorations linger a little longer than the joy did. And before January 1 arrives with its promises and pressure, many of us are left standing in this in-between space—tired, reflective, and unsure how to move forward well. Everyone seems to be asking the same question: What are your goals for the new year? But before you answer that, I want to invite

Jason Henry-Ruhl
Dec 29, 20255 min read


After the Feast: Finding Our Way Back Without Shame
A Dietitian’s Reflection on Moderation, Grace, and the Days After Christmas
Gail Henry-Ruhl
Dec 26, 20253 min read


The Christmas Story You’ve Never Heard
A Cosmic War, a Crying Baby, and the Hope That Still Holds Most of us learned the Christmas story early. A quiet night. A star. A stable. A baby in a manger. It’s tender. It’s warm. It’s safe. And if we’re honest—after decades of hearing it—it can start to feel… small. Not untrue. Just familiar. But Scripture tells the Christmas story in more than one register. Luke gives us the cradle-level view. Matthew shows us political paranoia and slaughter. And then there’s a telling o

Jason Henry-Ruhl
Dec 25, 20254 min read


Why Can't I Motivate Myself To Do Anything?!?!
“I don’t feel like doing anything. Not even the things I usually enjoy. I can’t even take small steps. I feel like I’m wasting away....

Jason Henry-Ruhl
Jul 21, 20255 min read


Running Won’t Save You: What Happens When We Stop Avoiding the Pain
Disclaimer: This post isn’t about shaming you for coping the best way you know how. It’s about gently inviting you to pause, breathe,...

Jason Henry-Ruhl
Jul 10, 20253 min read


When You’re Wrestling with “Good Enough” — and Feeling Like a Loser
❗ Disclaimer: The song “Good Enough” by Lø Spirit includes some explicit language and heavy emotional themes. It’s raw. It’s messy. It’s...

Jason Henry-Ruhl
Jul 9, 20255 min read


From “Future Jason’s Problem” to “Future Jason’s Benefit”
How Reframing My Inner Dialogue Changed My Life—and Can Change Yours Too There was a time in my life when I would brush things off with a...

Jason Henry-Ruhl
Jun 16, 20253 min read


When Dreams Stir Up Emotions: What Your Subconscious Might Be Telling Your Soul
A Faith-Based Reflection on Anger, Fear, and Projection in Our Dreams This morning, I woke up angry. Not because something happened. Not...

Jason Henry-Ruhl
Jun 16, 20254 min read


How to Actually Find Rest and Peace in God
Why It’s More Than Just a Bible Verse or Sunday Morning Vibe We hear it all the time in church settings: “Just rest in the Lord.” “God’s...

Jason Henry-Ruhl
Jun 2, 20255 min read


How I Use AI to Navigate Mental Health Between Therapy Sessions
We live in a world where we’re constantly encouraged to “just pray about it,” “cast your cares on Jesus,” or “be anxious for nothing.”...

Jason Henry-Ruhl
May 30, 20255 min read


Finding God on the Wall: How Climbing Helped Me Heal
I didn’t start climbing for the thrill or the views. I started because I was stuck. Life had collapsed in on itself. I was going to...

Jason Henry-Ruhl
May 28, 20253 min read


When Worry Takes Over: A Simple, Biblical Way to Sort Through the Chaos
It usually starts small. One decision. One conversation coming up. One unresolved situation. But somehow, your mind turns that one thing...

Jason Henry-Ruhl
May 23, 20253 min read


Stuffing vs. Letting Go: The Hidden Cost of Suppressed Emotions
Why Letting Go Doesn’t Mean Pretending It Didn’t Hurt Have you ever been told to “just let it go”? Maybe someone said it in passing,...

Jason Henry-Ruhl
May 22, 20254 min read


Freedom in the Tension: What the ‘Already but Not Yet’ Taught Me Today
This morning, in the quiet before the rush of the day began, I opened up my worn copy of New Morning Mercies by Paul David Tripp. The May...

Jason Henry-Ruhl
May 21, 20253 min read


What If I’m Never “Healed Enough” for the Church?
And Why That’s No Longer My Fear I used to sit in church pews wondering if everyone else had it more together than I did. If their...

Jason Henry-Ruhl
May 20, 20253 min read
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